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3 simple money management tips for couples who want to be happier

#1 Understand your spouse’s money personality

Money is one of the most challenging topics to discuss. I have used Money Habitudes and found it to be a quick and effective way couples can relate to one another. 

The non-threatening game format makes it easier to break through when folks do not like to talk about money. Moreover, it only takes 10-15 minutes to play.

The results are easy to understand and provide actionable steps for couples. It’s even more effective when a financial professional can review the reports and use them to craft a personalized plan for couples. 

#2 Be on the same page with your partner

Couples who disagree about financial matters are twice as likely to divorce as those who don’t. 

The nuts and bolts of money management include the budgeting software we elect to use; the bank accounts we choose, and the types of loans we take out. Such choices are often more personal than finance because they depend on what works best for their circumstances.

However, what drives couples nuts is when they are frustrated with each other about how their money is used, particularly when those choices chip away at the household’s financial health. 

Every couple of weeks we share ideas in our newsletter to help pull couples onto the same page and work as a team to manage money and the home as a team. 

#3 Communicate regularly with your partner

Talking about money can be stressful for couples. Arguing about money is among the most common sources of couples’ disagreements and eventual divorce.

Start by scheduling regular meetings with one another to discuss money. Some call these meetings household business meetings, and others call them money dates. However you define them, they must occur frequently and in low-stress situations. 

Be honest with your partner. We hosted national expert and NEFE CEO Dr. Billy Hensley on the Modern Husbands Podcast. He started the conversation by sharing that surveys repeatedly find that 2 in 5 couples commit financial infidelity, which is when couples who have combined their finances deceive each other about money. 

We went into further detail in our post How to manage money in a marriage.



Brian Page

Founder, Modern Husbands

How to Teach Your Kids About Financial Security

Cara Macksoud


Children are often left in the dark about what goes on with the family’s finances. This can lead to a lack of confidence and knowledge later in life when it’s time for them to handle their own money. Parents can start teaching these lessons early to prepare their children for when they’re on their own and have to be responsible for their own money before they leave the house. While not everything may be in practice now, this can set them up for success, better understanding and a feeling of safety when it comes to their finances.

Make It Fun

When starting the conversation about money with your kids, remember to keep the energy positive. While we want to warn them of the dangers and misuse of money, we don’t want them to be afraid of spending money. Keep the content at their level of understanding and make sure not to overload them with too much all at once. This will be something they’ll be learning and practicing over time.

While keeping it at the kids learning level, include some tools that can make it easier for them. Using games they already know, such as M.A.S.H., can make it easier to visualize finances and their goals later in life. This can be a stepping stone to looking at a budget and starting to save for the financial situation they plan to be in. In addition, these games and what they learn from them can be an easy resource for them to go back to when they’re older and put these skills to use.

Set Them Up With a Bank Account

Getting your kids set up with a bank account early can ease them into managing finances and provide them a starting point for their own. While they’re young, you’ll be the custodian making sure the account is safe, but it’ll allow them to be somewhat independent with their money as they grow up. You can also use this moment to show them the difference between a checking account and a savings account, and how each one would be used.

To get them actively utilizing these accounts, you can start giving them an allowance. This gives them experience in a real life situation where they earn and have to handle their money. An allowance shows them what their spending looks like and how to save that money for any bigger purchases they may want. It also gives kids a safe place to experiment with money, since they won’t be responsible for any major bills or payments, and there won’t be major repercussions if they overspend. The experience they have with their childhood allowance and bank account gives them first-hand knowledge to use in the future. 

Help Them Create a Budget

Showing your children how to budget their money early on can help them practice good spending habits they can carry throughout life. Give them options on the type of budget they could use, so they’ll have the tools to customize it to their needs and situations. A yearly budget versus a monthly one can provide them with different perspectives on their finances and where they can go with their money. Show them the different factors that would need to be taken into consideration when budgeting. This includes how much they’re earning, what bills need to be paid, and how much they should be saving. Learning to budget early on can give your children a foundation on how to handle their money while also giving them a safety net to make mistakes now in a low-risk environment.

Show Them How To Set Goals

When kids are learning how to create a budget, they can start using it to reach their financial goals. They can set smaller goals, such as saving a certain amount per month, or they can set bigger goals, such as being able to purchase something they’ve wanted for a while. Showing them how to put money aside and not spend it all at once can teach them the satisfaction of being able to purchase something that may seem out of reach. This can help them later on when they might need to save for a big purchase, such as a car or a down payment on a home. 

Remind them to sit down from time to time and see what they have, what they need, and how much money is coming in, in order to truly know how much they need to save and how long it will take. They might also have to consider outside factors as well and you can remind them of online tools they can use to help reach their goals or get back on track. When they’re younger, it may just be a gaming system or a phone that they want to save for and it might be easier to make your own budget and chart for that. As they get older and their goals get bigger, they may need the help of online calculators and templates. When it comes time for them to save for a car, find a resource that can help you shop around to find a vehicle that meets your needs. Later in life, for a home, they might need help discovering how much house they can afford. Learning these lessons and how to save now can help them see all the different factors they’d need to take into consideration for a purchase of this size and what they need to prepare for. 

Showing your children that there’s resources out there to provide them with guidance can give kids confidence in making bigger purchases and knowing that there is help out there if they need it.