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Reliability of Money Habitudes (National Council on Family Relations)

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National Council on Family Relations

November 16, 2011

Lucy Delgadillo

Alena Johnson

Samantha Nelson

Introduction

 

Previous literature supports the premise that family finance is related to marital satisfaction (Henry et al. 2005, Stanley et al. 2002, Bryant et al. 2008).  Many family relations and finance educators are looking for resources to aid in teaching couples how to more effectively manage their money.  Money Habitudes was developed for this purpose.  Money Habitudes is a game-like tool used by educators and counselors to investigate the financial habits and attitudes of couples and individuals.  The premise is that these “habitudes affect our decisions and actions related to money” (Solomon, 2009).  The purpose of the Money Habitudes activity is to get people talking about their habits and attitudes when it comes to money.  This can be especially helpful when working with couples.

This study will present evidence for the reliability analysis of the Money Habitudes statements used in the activity.  There are six different Money Habitudes or “domains” with nine items related to each domain.  The Money Habitudes are:  spontaneous, targeted goals, selfless, free spirit, status, and security.  The Money Habitudes exercise consists of going through a deck of cards with statements such as, “I rarely buy anything unless I can pay it off right away.”  Participants then decide if they feel each statement is like them or not like them.  There are fifty-four statements, nine in each Habitude.  Subjective measures of each domain were reported by each individual.  Measurements were taken of the internal reliability of the items within each domain.

Learning Objectives

  1. Attendees will be able to identify the Money Habitudes exercise as a tool for couples and money management education.
  2. Attendees will be able to engage in a discussion about the reliability of the Money Habitudes statements.
  3. Attendees will begin to determine the usefulness of the Money Habitudes exercise in their own professions.

 

Review of Literature

Among the top issues that married couples face are those of a financial nature.  In fact, Albrecht, Bahr, and Goodman (1983) claim that one of the most significant stressors a married couple can experience is the inability to meet basic economic needs.  Across previous research, stress that stems from financial hardship has been highly associated with marital conflict, risk of dissolution, emotional distress, and many other serious family problems (Conger et al., 1990).  The connection between finances and family relations is of particular importance in light of the recent recession from which the United States is still reeling—turbulent economic factors appear to amplify family distress, and consequently affect the dynamics of familial relationships.  In understanding the depth of the connection between financial and relational factors, practitioners can more efficiently and effectively select resources—such as the Money Habitudes—to improve the relational and financial well-being of couples.

One of the key pieces of research in this area is a study performed by Conger and colleagues in 1999.  Conger is one of the premiere researchers connecting the fields of family economics and marital relations.  He is most famous for his family stress model of economic stress influences on marital distress.  In a study that empirically evaluated that model, Conger and his colleagues (1999) tested a group of married couples on their resilience to economic pressure.  The purpose of that study was to examine factors that might protect couples from economic pressure, or feelings of financial distress.  Beyond the discovery of a strong link between economic pressure, marital distress, and marital conflict, Conger et al. (1999) also examined the buffering effects of social support and couples’ problem-solving skills.  They found that in times of economic woe, couples that were able to give one another emotional support were more resilient to the stresses they faced.  This social support included reassurances of worth, expressions of affection, and careful listening (Conger et al., 1999).  In addition, the ability of couples to evaluate their economic troubles and use effective problem-solving techniques was shown to have a buffering effect against economic duress.  Several other studies have similarly discovered strong links between financial factors and marital factors.  Dew (2008), for instance, provided evidence of a strong relationship between change in debt and its effect on marital satisfaction change in recently married couples.  Higginbotham and Felix’s (2009) investigated economic predictors of marital quality and showed that economic pressure increased the likelihood of hostility and diminished emotional warmth, which then increased risk of marital conflict and subsequent marital outcomes.  Based on the assumption that an inability to meet basic economic needs constitute a significant stressor in married life, Kinnunen and Feldt (2004) provided more evidence of a strong relationship between finances and relationship quality.  Skogrand and colleagues (2010) qualitatively examined the financial management practices of couples with self-proclaimed great marriages, finding that trust, communication, low levels of debt, and frugality were common characteristics.  The list of such studies goes on, furthering the point that a couple’s finances and their relationship quality are very much intertwined.

While it is clear that finances and family relations are strongly connected within the context of couple well-being, each field’s practitioners have seen very few tools and techniques that can effectively combine them.  The process of identifying such potential resources is a task yet to be thoroughly undertaken.  Money Habitudes is one of these potential resources that many educators and counselors have found to be effective in fostering dialogue on money among couples but it has not been evaluated in its reliability.  Hence, the aim of this paper is to help contribute to the task of merging these two important fields by evaluating the reliability of the Money Habitudes tool.

Design

Students in a western state university class were asked to participate in the study.  Students that were willing to participate completed the survey online.  Students that participated in the study were given five extra credit points toward their grade The survey consisted of the 54 statements from the Money Habitudes cards.  Students were asked to choose, on a five point scale, if each statement was “not at all like me” up to “very much like me.”  There was no identifying information collected with the data.  . The first wave of data collection was conducted in Spring 2010. No funding was provided to conduct this research.

Instrument

The data was collected from a survey that was available online to students in a western state university class.  Statements such as “I always save or invest a set amount of money each month” were presented to the students to decide if they thought the statement was like them or not like them.  There were fifty-four statements presented.  Because the Money Habitudes tool itself was being examined, not the participants, demographic information from the participants was not collected.

Sample

Participants were drawn from campus and online sections of a one-semester class at a western university.  A total of 280 surveys were collected.  There were 296 student enrolled in the campus section and 96 enrolled in the online section.  A response rate of   71.4% was obtained for this study.

Analysis and Results

This paper is exploratory in nature and it represents the first stage of ongoing research on the reliability of the different domains in the Money Habitudes exercise.   The authors did not generate the items for any of the six different Money Habitudes domains.  Permission was requested from the original creator of the Money Habitudes to validate the items.  Institutional Review Board approval was secured before conducting the study.

The goal of the study was to conduct an empirical study to measure the reliability of the domains and to provide suggestions – to the author– on how [problematic] existing items may be improved.  For this purpose, Cronbach alpha procedure was chosen for the reliability and item analysis of each domain.   Cronbach  provides a model of internal consistency, based on the average inter-item correlation.  In other words, it is a useful statistical procedure that provides information about the relationships between individual items in a scale.

Taken together, all the six domains in Money Habitudes passed the minimum standards  or reliability acceptable in the Social Sciences.  Coefficient alphas for the six scales vary from .59 to .75.  The nine items in the Spontaneous domain produced an alpha coefficient of .75; Targeted Goals, .714;  Status, .695; Free Spirit, .652; Selfless .593 and Security, .590.   It has been amply indicated that an alpha value between .7 and 8 is an acceptable value for Cronbach’s alphas; nevertheless, Cortina (1993) warns that such general guidelines need to be used with caution because the value of alpha depends on the number of items on the scale.

Table 1:   Reported Cronbrach’s Alpha for each of the Scales.

Scale or DomainReported Alpha
Spontaneous0.745
Target0.710
Status0.689
Free Spirit0.652
Selfless0.593
Security0.590

 

In view of the fact that two scales have alphas above .7 (Spontaneous and Targeted Goals) and Status gravitates near .7, efforts were concentrated on the Security, Selfless and Free Spirit domains which yielded the lowest alphas (.590, .593 and .652 respectively).

The first step in further analyzing these scales was to look at the feature “Cronbach’s is alpha deleted” as reported by PASW (aka SPSS).   Once again, the approach was not to delete the item that will increase the alpha but to make recommendations on how to improve it.  On the security scale, one problematic item was “I want to be able to get to my money right away, so I like it to be very accessible.”  The reason why this item was problematic was that the statement encompasses an issue of accessibility rather than safety.  The proposed changed was “I like to put my money where it is as safe as possible.”

For the Selfless scale, one problematic item was negatively stated:  “I do not trust people who have an extravagant lifestyle.”  The recommendation was to structure the item positively.   Steward and Frye (2004) investigated the use of negatively phrased survey items in medical education settings.  In their studies, they concluded that negatively phrased items affect reliability and validity, and therefore, they recommend employing negative items with care. The proposed change for this particular item was “I think people who have a lot of money should give generously to help others.”

Finally, on the Free Spirit, the old problematic item stated, “Since life is full of surprises I like to be able to respond in the moment and not be limited by long-term commitments.”  The recommendation was to word this item positively and simply: “I like to keep my options open.”  The performance of these three new items will be tested in a second wave of data collection scheduled in March 2012.

Implications for Practice

Counselors and educators working with couples and money issues may seek effective resources.  The Money Habitudes exercise has gained popularity over the past several years as a tool for initiating communication between couples.  However, the reliability of the statements in the Money Habitudes exercise has not been evaluated.  The purpose of this study was to examine the internal reliability of these statements.  After reading this study, counselors and educators will have a better understanding of the reliability of the Money Habitudes tool.

The Money Habitudes of Spontaneous, Targeted Goals, and Status appear to exhibit adequate internal reliability as they currently stand.  The Money Habitudes of Selfless, Free
Spirit, and Security may benefit from minor changes.  Educators and counselors could eliminate the three mentioned problematic statements when conducting the exercise.  Further data will be collected with changes made to these three statements.

 

References

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Bryant, C., Taylor, R., Lincoln, K., Chatters, L., & Jackson, J. (2008).  Marital satisfaction among African Americans and Black Caribbeans:  Findings from the National Survey of American Life. Family Relations, 57, 239-253.

Conger, R., Elder Jr., G., Lorenz, F., Conger, K., Simons, R., Whitbeck, L., et al. (1990).

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Conger, R., Rueter, M., & Elder Jr., G. (1999). Couple Resilience to Economic

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Dew, J. (2008). Debt Change and Marital Satisfaction Change in Recently Married Couples. Family Relations57(1), 60-71. doi:10.1111/j.1741-3729.2007.00483.x.

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Higginbotham, B. J., & Felix, D. (2009). Economic predictors of marital quality among newly remarried rural and urban couples. Family Science Review, 14 (2), 18-30.

Kinnunen, U., & Feldt, T. (2004). Economic stress and marital adjustment among couples: analyses at the dyadic level. European Journal of Social Psychology34(5), 519-532. doi:10.1002/ejsp.213.

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Money Habitudes Encourages Constructive Discussions About Money for the Holiday Season

Company behind popular Money Habitudes cards encourages people to think about money with a list of reasons specific to the upcoming holidays: Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanzaa. Good conversations about money and finances happen when they are proactive and constructive. Assessing one’s habits and attitudes related to money in a non-threatening manner can be an effective first step in handling larger issues.

 

Wilmington, NC, November 27, 2009 — On the eve of the winter holidays, LifeWise releases its latest list of conversation starters to think about money in a constructive way. Because money plays such a central role in our lives, people benefit by talking proactively about it instead of waiting until there is a critical need to discuss and deal with finances. A recent study from Capital One Financial Corporation reported that one of four people surveyed say they disagree with their partner about money at least once a month. To this end, every season has specific challenges and opportunities related to money management and communicating about how money will be used. The weeks from Thanksgiving through the end of December–including Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa–represent one of the most intensive spending periods of the year, and can be the most contentious for relationships.”For many people, holiday spending touches on other issues. They may be paying off social debts, compensating for something or competing for love and acceptance. Although spending more doesn’t change relationships or satisfy emotional needs, people frequently think paying more will make a difference,” says Syble Solomon, president of LifeWise and creator of Money Habitudes™, the innovative deck of cards that makes it easy and non-threatening to talk about money.Released four days before Black Friday, the Capital One study found that most couples (55 percent) had not yet discussed a holiday shopping budget with their partner or spouse. Additionally, just over half (51 percent) of respondents had not set aside money to spend on holiday gifts.

“Before you go shopping for presents, decorations, new clothes or to entertain, take 15 minutes to think about past holidays: what made them special and which gifts were memorable? Did spending more make your past holidays better? Share these thoughts with your family, especially with your partner. Then, within the context of your overall financial situation and goals, have an honest discussion about what is really important to you and your family. Consider what you are doing just out of habit that no longer is meaningful,” says Solomon.

Taking the time to understand how your habits and attitudes related to money–and being able to talk about them–helps people avoid unnecessary spending and unhealthy debt. In so doing, it also helps reduce the arguments, stress and financial anxieties that come from holiday spending. In short, getting a handle on how, why and when you spend over the next few weeks makes for happier holidays.

Use the following questions as you consider what will influence your buying decisions when you do your holiday shopping:

  1. Planning vs. Last-Minute Shopping. If you value saving and planning, you may shop early or order gifts online ahead of time and save a lot. However, if you enjoy the rush of last-minute shopping, you may still find yourself in stores spending money just to enjoy yourself. Know your own style. If last-minute shopping is a tradition you want to keep, go with a list to avoid impulse spending or cap your spending at a certain, predetermined amount. Or shop with a friend who will influence you to buy carefully.
  2. Spending to Impress. Many people spend too much over the holidays because they believe they will be judged by the cost of the gift they give and the food and drinks they serve. Giving a meaningful gift that fits your budget and reconsidering how you entertain can pay off in the long run.
  3. Situational Spending. How do different people and situations influence your spending? Do you think twice before spending with one friend but buy lots of unnecessary extras when shopping with another? Do you buy more impulsively if the store creates a festive holiday mood? Will you spend more at craft shows when the items are handmade and you’re buying directly from an artisan?
  4. Involve Your Children. Put the focus on giving, not shopping, by encouraging them to think of things they can do or make. Instead of asking for a list of everything they want and setting up unrealistic expectations, give them some parameters or choices. Plan when and where you will go shopping with children to minimize stress by scheduling it after everyone has eaten and is rested. Your children will see you modeling a balanced approach to planning-and-saving with spending-and-enjoying.
  5. Gifts That Keep Giving. Giving a favorite aunt a small bouquet of flowers every month may be appreciated more than one big, expensive flower arrangement. Consider limiting gifts and using the money to buy something for shared enjoyment, or plan an experience the whole family will appreciate. Take the savings from buying things on sale, making gifts or giving of your time and use it to pay down your credit card bill or put it toward paying off your car loan or mortgage.

Money Habitudes is the leading constructive conversation-starter to get people thinking and talking about money and the issues related to it in a fun, nonjudgmental way. Appropriate for individuals, couples and groups, Money Habitudes is a training and learning tool that works like a card game and is available for adults, young adults, teens and Spanish speakers. It is used by thousands of people across the U.S. and Canada and in more than 40 other countries. In addition, professionals such as therapists, counselors, educators and financial planners use Money Habitudes. The cards are employed in educational, military, faith-based, and community settings as a stand-alone activity or in conjunction with comprehensive financial planning, career development, relationship-building, conflict resolution, financial literacy, marriage education and life-skills programs. Solomon, the creator of Money Habitudes, is a popular speaker on the psychology of money. She is the recipient of the 2009 Smart Marriages Impact Award for the cards’ role in promoting healthy relationships. She was also named Educator of the Year (2006) by the Association of Financial Planning and Counseling Education.

Money Habitudes Encourages Constructive Discussions About Money for the New Year (Press release)

Company behind popular Money Habitudes cards encourages people to think about money with a list of reasons specific to the New Year and New Year’s resolutions. Learning to talk about money constructively–be it with a friend, spouse or financial professional–can be an effective first step in planning one’s finances. Talking about money–one of the most daunting conversations–helps people get help, support and personal understanding in order to achieve their financial goals.

Wilmington, NC, January 02, 2010 — Among the most popular New Year’s resolutions are those that deal with money. According to a survey by TD Ameritrade, 63% of Americans plan to improve their personal finances in 2010–more than will try to exercise more, eat better, or lose weight. Given the New Year’s focus on financial self-improvement, LifeWise releases its latest list of seasonal conversation starters to think about money–and be able to talk about it–in a constructive way.” Money is a metaphor for life. When you feel like you are in control of your money, you feel like you are in control of your life,” says Syble Solomon, president of LifeWise and creator of Money Habitudes™, the innovative deck of cards that makes it easy and non-threatening to talk about money.

In a recent survey from financial services firm Edward Jones, 33% of Americans listed “increase savings” as their top financial resolution. Other priorities included: paying down debt (30%), putting more money into a child’s or grandchild’s education (13%), contributing more to a 401(k) or IRA (9%), paying a mortgage faster (7%). Despite a focus on achieving financial goals, only 3% planned to start working with a financial advisor.

To achieve these goals, many experts focus on concrete steps like cutting household costs or making a budget. However, even before such actions, a beneficial first step is to look at and talk about your habits and attitudes (habitudes) related to money. After all, people follow through on resolutions better when they have support from others, be it a friend, spouse or financial planner. Taking the time to understand how you relate to money also helps avoid unnecessary spending and debt. And because people typically don’t seek financial help until a problem has become a crisis, having a framework to share concerns helps people proactively address issues before they get out of hand.

Money can be difficult to think or talk about, so use the following questions as you make your financial New Year’s resolutions:

1) Do you fight about money? It can have a big impact; research from Utah State University found that money disputes were the best indicators of divorce. Instead of avoiding the topic or only addressing money when you’re upset, try starting a conversation with less charged questions: When you were growing up, what money messages did you receive from the adults around you or from your cultural background? What were your first money memories? What was the first big purchase you made? These conversations demonstrate that you can talk about money without arguing. And you may find in your past the key to understanding and resolving present money disagreements, such as how much to spend on a family vacation or how to handle your estate planning.

2) Do you understand the larger financial patterns borne of your habitudes around money? We comprehend that buying a $4 coffee every day can be detrimental, but we may not see larger tendencies. For example, do you spend to impress without realizing it? Do you always: pick up the check when you go out to eat; drive a new car; want the most fashionable clothes? Not feeling compelled to always pay for others or keeping your car another year can have a much greater impact than cutting down on costs like coffee.

3) Are your challenges around money situational? Do you, for example, go to the store with your kids and spend wisely, but when you go out with a girlfriend, do you come home with clothes you’ll never wear? If so, reaching your financial goals may mean looking more at where and with whom you spend than what you’re buying. Then you can make appropriate changes such as meeting at a park instead of the mall or a restaurant.

4) Are you too good at saving? Although not typically thought of as a challenge, being too frugal can be dysfunctional. This might mean always buying the cheap item but then needing to replace it when it breaks or underperforms. Another sign might be driving across town to save a few cents on gas. On a larger scale, do you fear eating into your savings or making your money less liquid? Some examples include having a large savings balance but few investments, or renting for years when you could buy a house. Another common example is someone who amassed $3000 in credit card debt when she was younger and it accrues 18% interest. Now she has $5000 in savings that only earns 1% interest. By not touching the savings and only making minimum payments, it exacerbates the debt problem.

5) People can mistakenly think of themselves as being simply “bad with money.” For example, do you bank your paychecks, budget well and spend with restraint–but still go into debt? Surprisingly, many people don’t see that they actually save so well that their friends and family come to rely on them, always asking for financial assistance. The issue is not being “bad with money” but perhaps being too generous. There is, therefore, more value in taking a course in setting good boundaries versus one on budgeting.

6) Are your financial goals specific enough? Try using the SMART(ER) (Specific-Measurable-Actionable-Realistic-Timeline-Extra Realistic) system. A vague goal may be to “pay off my debt.” A better goal might be: “By February 1, I will meet with a credit counselor to determine best strategies and plan to pay off $300 of debt per month over the next 10 months, to total $3000 paid by Dec 31.”

Money Habitudes is the leading conversation-starter to get people thinking and talking about money in a fun, nonjudgmental way. Appropriate for individuals, couples and groups, Money Habitudes is a training and learning tool that works like a card game. It is available for adults, young adults, teens and Spanish speakers. Therapists, counselors, educators and financial planners use Money Habitudes and the cards are employed as a stand-alone activity or in conjunction with programs on: financial literacy, relationships, life skills, investing, careers, conflict resolution, and fatherhood, premarital and marriage education. Solomon is a popular speaker on the psychology of money. She received the 2009 Smart Marriages Impact Award and was also named Educator of the Year (2006) by the Association of Financial Planning and Counseling Education.

Producer of Leading Conversation-Starter Card Game Promotes Regular, Proactive Money Discussions: Summer Vacation (Press release)

The popular Money Habitudes cards encourage constructive conversations about money by assessing one’s habits and attitudes (habitudes) related to money in a fun, non-threatening manner — an effective first step in handling larger issues.

 

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE – August 9, 2009 – LifeWise promotes healthy relationships with its first list of reasons to have a constructive conversation about money. The list serves as a reminder that, because money plays such a central role in our lives, people benefit by talking proactively about potential money issues instead of waiting until there is a critical need to discuss finances.

“Even in great financial times, it can seem overwhelming to initiate a conversation about money,” says Syble Solomon, president of LifeWise and creator of Money Habitudes™, the deck of cards which is the leading conversation-starter about people’s habits and attitudes about money. “However, if you only talk about money when you’re under-the-gun, it sets you up for failure. When stressed about money, you’re likely to overreact, making it difficult to resolve issues calmly.”

This timely list provides questions to spur proactive discussions related to current and seasonal events. By considering one’s habits and attitudes about money, people can take control of their finances and minimize surprises and obstacles.

  1. Summer Vacation: Vacations can cause stress when the dream conflicts with the budget. Before making commitments for a summer trip or an upcoming vacation, try these questions:
  • Where are you on the continuum of thinking that a vacation is a time to splurge versus being hesitant to spend money to enjoy yourself?
  • How will you pay for your vacation? Do you save in advance, finance it with a credit card, or stay with generous friends who will feed and entertain you?
  • How will your vacation choices affect how much money will be available later to pay bills, spend on the holidays, or give to charity?
  • Whether it’s a “staycation” or an exotic destination, which expenses will add value and which are not worth the money?
  1. New Lives Together: Summer is a popular time for weddings, so now is a great time for newlyweds to have those important conversations about money that may have been overlooked.  Surprises about debt and conflicting money values can ruin relationships.
  • Start by sharing simple stories like how you got money as a child. Describe your first jobs. What did you do with your money? Would you like to replicate or change about the way your parents managed money?
  • What would it take for each of you to feel secure, and, how much debt are you comfortable having?
  • Who will pay bills and will money be merged, his and hers or a combination?
  1. Prepping for School: Whether you’re taking classes yourself or getting your kids ready for school, consider these important questions about your spending habits.
  • Are you a penny wise and a pound foolish? In other words, do you buy a cheap book bag, only to keep replacing it every few months? Do you scrimp on a low-end computer and waste time and money because it is unreliable?
  • Do you shop wisely in advance but find yourself still going into stores for the thrill of last-minute sales?
  • Are you clear about the difference between what you need and what you want? A cell phone may be necessary, but are all the extras? Are you easily tempted to pick up impulse buys?
  1. Recession Stress: Loss of income and financial uncertainty can be overwhelming. Economists may be predicting a stronger year in 2010, but the problems persist with a loss of 467,000 jobs in June alone and unemployment at 16.5 percent (including those who have stopped looking for work and who are underemployed.)While you cannot control the economy, thinking and talking about your responses to tough economic situations can help you make it through. Try questions such as:
  • What was a specific instance when you experienced a difficult financial situation? What did you do that helped you get through it and what would you do differently?
  • How do you normally face tough issues? Do you avoid them, face them head-on, become controlling, or give up all responsibility to someone else? Do you let those around you know that times are tough?
  1. Summer Blockbusters:Between motivated sellers, promotional sales, low interest rates, Cash for Clunkers, and the $8000 first-time homebuyer credit, it’s a buyer’s market for houses and cars as the summer ends. Make the smartest choice by shopping with clear priorities in mind.
  • What do you actually need and what are your top three criteria for choosing a house or car? What would be a deal breaker?
  • How will you know to walk away when you’re offered a great deal that exceeds your budget?
  • Do you find that, over and over, even though something you want is perfect and has a great price, you still can’t bring yourself to buy it?

Money Habitudes™ is the leading constructive conversation-starter to get people thinking and talking about money and the issues related to money in a fun, engaging and non-threatening way. Appropriate for individuals, couples and groups, Money Habitudes is the training tool that works like a card game and is available for adults, young adults, teens and Spanish speakers. It is being used by thousands of people, across the U.S. and in 40 other countries, from newlyweds to retirees.  In addition professionals such as therapists, counselors, educators and financial advisors are using the cards. Money Habitudes are employed in educational, faith-based, community, military and professional settings as a stand-alone activity or in-conjunction with comprehensive financial planning, career development, relationship-building, financial literacy, marriage education and life-skills programs. Solomon, the creator of Money Habitudes, is the recipient of the 2009 Smart Marriages Impact Award for the role Money Habitudes plays in promoting healthy relationships.  She was also named Educator of the Year (2006) by the Association of Financial Planning and Counseling Education.

LifeWise was founded by Syble Solomon, the creator of Money Habitudes cards, an educational card game that helps individuals discover their habits and attitudes about money. Also available in Teen, Young Adult and Spanish versions.

Syble Solomon wins Award for Outstanding Contributions to Financial Education for Youth (Press Release)

Wilmington-based Creator of Money Habitudes chosen for financial attitudes work by North Carolina Jump$tart Coalition

April 30, 2013 – Wilmington, NC – LifeWise Strategies, LLC announces that its founder, Syble Solomon, has been selected as the winner of the 2013 North Carolina Jump$tart Award for Outstanding Contributions to Financial Education for Youth.

The award is given annually by North Carolina Jump$tart Coalition, a nonprofit that seeks to improve the personal financial literacy of North Carolina’s youth. The award honors an individual or organization that has made outstanding contributions in educating the youth of North Carolina about personal finances. The Forsyth County eLink Program won the award in 2012 for its year-round educational and job readiness/placement services for low-income youth.

“Syble Solomon has worked with young people in North Carolina and across the United States to help them understand their money personalities and have great conversations with their peers and family about money,” says Tami Hinton, President of the North Carolina Jump$tart Coalition.

Solomon is the creator of Money Habitudes®, a fun, game-like tool used by personal finance and economics teachers, community educators, and life skills programs. The activity focuses on helping people understand how their habits, attitudes, values and behaviors affect the way they spend and save. The companion financial curriculum for youth, “Money Habitudes: How to be Rich in Life & Love” was co-developed by California-based Dibble Institute and won a 2012 Excellence in Financial Literacy Education (EIFLE) Award for Children’s Education Program of the Year, given by the Institute for Financial Literacy.

“It’s a great honor to be recognized by Jump$tart and this award is especially meaningful coming from a group of professionals dedicated to improving financial education. Having worked across the age spectrum, it’s clear how important it is for people to be aware of their financial habits and attitudes when they are young so they have the power and understanding to establish healthy habits and attitudes for the rest of their lives,” says Solomon.

Solomon has also won a number of national awards. She was previously named educator of the year by the Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education and now serves on AFCPE’s national board of directors. She is also the recipient of a Smart Marriages impact award for her role in fostering healthy conversations around money. Prior to her work in financial education, Solomon spent more than two decades working in early childhood and special education.

The award was presented at the Financial Literacy Month Wrap-Up Luncheon on April 30, 2013 at the Quorum Center in Raleigh. The event featured an address by North Carolina Secretary of State Elaine Marshall.